We talk a lot about stress in our society, but very little about relaxation. Odd, isn’t it? The ability to relax is, in my view, undervalued. We value driven people, achievers, go-getters. "He’s a bit laid-back" is more likely to be an insult than a compliment!

We all need to relax. Heart disease leads too many of us to an early grave. Interpersonal friction damages marriages and relationships. The everyday tensions of life weigh too heavily on us, crushing our sense of joy at being alive. (If I become too lyrical, just slap me)

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